I've worked with a LOT of children through the years. I've seen a lot of different parenting styles and a lot of personalities. I could write for a long time about my observations and things I've picked up on, but there is one trick I want to share today for people dealing with kids who are stubborn or demanding. If you are working with a child who wants things their own way, they are fighting for control. There is a very simple way to allow them to participate and start learning responsibility while still staying in control yourself - give them choices.
Let's say getting dressed each day is a struggle. They fight you on whatever you pick out. You could just let them dress themselves, and that is a valid option, but if that feels like letting them win to you, then instead, try picking out two outfits and letting them choose one. Recently, I used this trick with a little boy that I watch. He was supposed to take a bath while I was with him and I let him choose if he wanted a bath before quiet time or after. Then, I let him choose between his shark robe or a "big" towel. It made the whole bath experience much more pleasant! I don't have kids but I've done a lot with kids for pretty much my whole life and I have seen how helpful this idea is. It helps kids feel like they have some control over their lives, lets you still really be in control, and introduces kids to making decisions in a very safe and low-pressure way. Have you ever done something like this with your kids or kids in your life? What other things have you tried and had success with?
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Hi! I'm Sarah!
I am a natural light portrait photographer. I've been taking photos since 2014 and would eat a smoothie from Tropical Smoothie Cafe for lunch everyday if I could. Thank you so much for stopping by. I blog about sessions, things I'm learning, stuff in my life, and information for YOU, my client. If you like what you see around the site, I'd love to work with you! I'd also love to connect with you on Instagram. I'm @sarah_jayne_photo :) Archives
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